Date Written: 02 May 2026
Sometimes being the youngest in a household sucks when you are always the quiet sponge
always absorbing the pain of your parents and older sibling(s) too
Sometimes being so emotionally aware of the hurt your loved ones are going through
is a burden that was never meant for you
Whether it’s watching your older sibling(s) wall themselves so much
That when your parents poke at that wall
They lash out and blame them for all the failed promises and hurt they went through
Or watching your parents tear themselves down after hearing all the sacrifices they did for all of you
It won’t matter in the end, that much needed heart to heart with your older sibling(s) and parents will just not go through
It will fall into the cracks in the kitchen sink
Leaking, as your family addresses everything in that kitchen sink but the cracks
that the sink has gotten supporting all the heartbreak, grief, generational trauma, and sorrow your family has and continues to go through
Sometimes being the youngest in a household sucks when you are always the quiet sponge
always absorbing the pain of your parents and older sibling(s) too
Sometimes being so emotionally aware of the hurt your loved ones are going through
is a burden that was never meant for you
As the youngest, it’s not your job to play therapist for those 5, 10, 30+ years older than you
As the youngest, it’s not your job to look for ways to mend a cracked kitchen sink
Sometimes its best to let the kitchen sink crack and break, letting all it holds fall through
And just hope that when it all comes crashing down, you will still have a loving and supportive family to lean back into